Helping Your Overweight Child
Make Overcoming Obesity a Whole Family Effort
Pediatricians and other health experts have been raising the obesity alarm. If weight has become a problem for your child, the following tips can help.
Increasingly, overweight children are showing up in doctor's offices with adult diseases; Type II diabetes among them. The following tips and simple changes can help your child (and family)get back on track for a healthier body and a healthier weight.
- Recognize that there is a problem
Try to avoid blaming yourself or your child. Simply acknowledge that something is happening and embrace your readiness to make a change.
- Resolve to work together as a family toward a solution
You may strengthen your resolve by discussing the benefits of maintaining a healthy weight, and your commitment to one another while achieving your family weight loss goal.
- Remember that change will take time
Gaining extra weight takes time. Losing extra weight takes time, too. Record short and long-term goals and chart your progress at every milestone. Patience is the key.
- Reward progress
All children need encouragement. This is especially true for children working to change their eating habits and their relationship to food. Where a reward might have been ice cream or a cookie, consider instead a kind word, a hug, or special time together.
- Rebuild self-esteem
Being overweight can be especially difficult for children. They may face teasing and cruel remarks from other children; or they may always be passed over for sports and other activities they wish they could join in. Remind your child of his or her strengths and talents and create frequent opportunities for building confidence and feeling success.
- Restructure meals and snacks
Get the family together and plan healthy meals and snacks that everyone can enjoy. Be an example. Whenever possible, opt for grab and go snacks such as carrot sticks, grapes, apples, celery sticks, etc. Look for healthier versions of your favorite meals, and while you're at it offer more variety for meals and snacks. Try foods and recipes that you haven't had before. Try, too to limit meals to the family table. It can be very easy to overeat when watching television or sitting in front of the computer.
- Rely on each other
Walk, run and keep moving as a family. Help each other get out even when you want to stay on the couch. Support one another in making healthy food choices and eating everything in moderation.
- Replace the most harmful food items one at a time
Some families may find it too difficult to give up all the unhealthy foods they love all at once. If that sounds like your family, you can still meet your goal if you begin with a plan. Start by cutting back on soft drinks or fast food and adding more water, fruit and vegetables to your diet. Decide on new changes and additions each week.
