Getting kids to complete their household chores is a challenge for many families. If your family is among these, try the following tips.
Five Tips for Getting Kids to do their Chores
Sometimes getting kids to do chores might involve games, encouragement or rewards. See what works for you.
- Use a chore jar - list everything that needs to be done around the house for the week and let each child choose and complete a chore.
- Set a timer - this strategy has worked well for me, especially when the task seems too overwhelming to even start. Set the timer and ask your child to do as much as s/he can until the timer goes off. Sometimes making chores time limited makes them seem more manageable.
- Use "when" and "then" - For example, "when the dishes have been washed and put away, then you can watch television or use the computer."
- Provide a window of opportunity - This strategy is especially helpful with older children. Instead of saying "I want you to wash the car," try "please wash the car by Sunday at 6."
- Show appreciation - Everyone likes to feel that their efforts are recognized. Give your child a pat on the back by naming exactly what pleases you about the completed chore. Don't forget please and thank you.
Household chores are a fact of life. Make your life easier by using a little more creativity and a lot less nagging...you may just be surprised.
