Following is a very brief introduction to two toileting problems. If either sounds familiar, schedule an appointment with your healthcare provider for a consultation.
According to the American Academy of Pediatrics, "encopresis is one of the more frustrating disorders of middle childhood. It is the passing of stools into the underwear or pajamas, far past the time of normal toilet training. Encopresis affects about 1.5 percent of young schoolchildren and can create tremendous anxiety and embarrassment for children and their families."
When children have similar problems with urine, it's called enuresis.
Toileting troubles can cause a great deal of strain on families, and may even cause parents to argue or call their abilities into question.
The good news is that there is treatment available. You can get through this.