Parenting Methods

» Barbara Gibson - Parenting under pressure

want2Bhappy2,

You are not alone. There isn't a parent out there that doesn't sometimes struggle with low energy, low moods or low patience. I'm really glad that you have the courage to be honest about how you are feeling; and I want to encourage you to seek out new friends and sources of support. We all need safe places where we can open up. You may even consider a counselor, therapist or parenting coach -particularly as you mention depression. If you need help right away, please call a crisis line for a supportive, non-judgmental ear. There is a terrible myth surrounding motherhood - many moms mistakenly believe they are evil or wicked if they feel tired or frustrated...that's simply not true. You will get tired and frustrated sometimes and that's okay. What's not okay is to set yourself to impossible standards that cut you off from support and honest conversations about the real challenges of motherhood.

Barbara